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Friendship is a crucial aspect of our lives that provides us
with emotional support, companionship, and a sense of belonging. While
friendships are often formed in childhood and adolescence, they continue to
play a vital role throughout our lives. As we grow older, we learn to
distinguish between good and bad friends and seek out those who are
trustworthy and reliable.
Research has shown that we tend to form the most friendships during
kindergarten and primary school. At this stage in our lives, our
expectations of friendship are low, and we rely mostly on family members for
support. The friends we make at this age are more like playmates, and we do
not typically view them as confidants or companions.
However, as we enter puberty and become more mature, we begin to seek out
friendships based on common interests, passions, and moral and religious
values. In some countries, such as those in Asia, students at the upper
secondary and university levels often form friendships with those of the
same ethnic and religious backgrounds. This can lead to polarization and a
lack of cultural understanding between different groups.
One reason for this polarization is that cultural and religious differences
often play a significant role in the selection of friends and mates.
Additionally, many of these students come from rural backgrounds where there
is not much exposure to other cultures, making them feel uncomfortable
forging friendships with students of other races. However, this does not
necessarily mean that they are racist or suffer from a superiority complex.
To promote greater cultural understanding and diversity, universities should
introduce more programs that encourage students to interact and learn from
one another.
In the working world, a different dynamic often emerges. Individuals from
different racial backgrounds often form stable, long-lasting friendships due
to the importance of teamwork and collaboration in the workplace. These
friendships can even lead to interracial marriages and unique family
structures with friends and relatives from multiple cultural backgrounds.
Regardless of the stage of life we are in, friendships are crucial to our
emotional and social well-being. Good friends are those who are reliable,
trustworthy, and supportive in times of need. As we continue to form and
maintain connections with others, we must strive to seek out diverse
perspectives and cultivate understanding between different groups to promote
a more inclusive and accepting society. |
