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Growing Up in a Superstitious Peranakan Family |
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Emily, my bosom friend and classmate, was a proud member of a large Peranakan
family, with Chinese and Malay heritage. Peranakans are known for their unique
blend of cultures and traditions, and Emily's family was no exception. They
lived in a huge bungalow, which housed two married sons, two unmarried
daughters, their spouses, and children. Despite their size, the family was
close-knit and loving, and they held deep respect for their ancestors.
However, their traditional values and superstitions also played a significant
role in their family life. For example, they believed that giving sharp objects
like needles, knives, or scissors to each other would lead to quarrels. They
also forbade sweeping the house after sunset, as they believed it would sweep
away family warmth and love. On the eve of Lunar New Year, the children were not
allowed to sleep until they had ushered in the new year at midnight, as it was
believed that the deities bestowed blessings on those they met first.
The family also had unique customs during significant events, like weddings and
illnesses. On a son's wedding day, he and his spouse would sweep a large orange
into the threshold of the house, symbolizing gold and prosperity. If a family
member fell ill, they avoided mentioning death or hospitals to prevent the devil
from claiming the sick person's soul.
During a dinner at their home, I witnessed one of their superstitions firsthand.
One of the grandchildren placed her left hand on her plate, and her grandmother
immediately scolded her, warning that she would never find food on her plate if
she continued to do so. According to their beliefs, the devil would think the
plate was only meant for her hand.
Despite their superstitious beliefs, the family was close and united. They
believed that these traditions were a part of their heritage and kept their
family grounded in their culture. Emily and her family taught me to respect and
appreciate the different cultural practices and beliefs that make people unique. |
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