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Embracing the Virtue of Giving Way |
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Let people give way to safety; let vehicles give way to maintain order; let
people give way to civility; let people give way to friendliness. In real
life, there are many instances of "giving way" like this. In families, one
can give abundant love; in schools, one can foster deep friendships; in
society, one can create a harmonious environment.
The Chinese nation has a glorious history of five thousand years, with a
profound cultural tradition and strong moral values. The ancient saying
"persuade others with virtue" shines with the brilliance of the virtue of
modesty. Confucianism has always placed "giving way" alongside "gentleness,"
"kindness," "respect," and "frugality" as enduring classics that have been
passed down to this day. Even at a young age, Kong Rong knew how to give way
to his younger brother by offering him a small pear, revealing the beauty of
his humility.
In today's era, which is filled with competition, how can one stand out
amidst the fierce competition? This is a question that every competitor
needs to consider. Sometimes, perhaps taking a step back and maintaining the
spirit of giving way is the best way to impress one's opponents.
There was a public election campaign for the governor of a certain state in
the United States, and the competition had reached a heated stage. Now there
were only two candidates left in the race. While one of the candidates
delivered a passionate speech on stage, the other competitor sat quietly in
a corner of the back row, applauding him with a smile. When it was his turn
to speak, he calmly walked down the stairs to the podium. He maintained his
smile and solemnly said, "I am proud that our country has such outstanding
politicians. Thank you." After a few seconds of silence, thunderous applause
erupted from the audience. In the end, he won the election by a large
margin. People thought he would deliver many passionate speeches, but he
only spoke a few words. However, those few words struck a chord in the
hearts of the listeners, even his opponent admitted defeat with respect.
When two strong opponents clash, only one can emerge victorious, and this
kind of war can be cruel. However, if we approach each competition with the
mindset of the candidate who "gives way to advance," applauding for our
opponents and viewing them from a different perspective, isn't it an art of
achieving victory? Instead of searching for flaws and criticizing the words
and actions of our opponents, if we can appreciate them, praise them, and
show tolerance with a sense of agreement, it will elevate our own image and
strengthen our competitiveness.
When two opponents meet on a narrow road and engage in a contest, only one
can be defeated. This kind of war is even more cruel for the loser. However,
it is necessary to give some space to the opponent, to avoid fighting
fruitlessly until the end, and to lose gracefully, with "dignity." Isn't
this also a realm of wisdom? Isn't it a great victory?
Friend, when facing an opponent, sometimes it is necessary to step aside,
gracefully open your arms, and say, "Please." |
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Answer |
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The concept of "giving way" is emphasized as a virtue in various aspects of
life in this passage. It highlights the importance of prioritizing safety,
order, civility, and friendliness. Drawing from the rich cultural traditions
of the Chinese nation, the passage encourages individuals to approach
competition with a mindset of humility and respect. It narrates a story of a
political candidate who wins an election by applauding and acknowledging his
opponent, showcasing the power of giving credit and appreciating others. The
passage suggests that by adopting a gracious attitude towards opponents, one
can enhance their own image and competitiveness. It concludes by emphasizing
the significance of gracefully yielding and extending politeness in
face-to-face encounters, symbolized by the phrase "please." |
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