A pencil is a tool that can be used on both sides: one side for writing and
the other side for erasing. When you write a paragraph and make mistakes,
misread, or do something wrong, you can simply erase and start over.
However, pencils are the only things that provide us with multiple chances
to begin again. But what about our lives?
Life doesn't offer second chances. You are presented with one opportunity,
one path that will determine your journey. Therefore, with every decision we
make, we must be cautious, extremely cautious, and avoid regrets.
When I was young, I didn't know how to make choices because of my young age.
My parents chose my kindergarten, my primary school, but as I grew older and
became more aware, I started selecting the books I wanted to read and the
sports I enjoyed. When it came time to graduate and move on to high school,
I was truly perplexed. So many subjects, what should I do? It was so
confusing. While I was in this state of confusion, some suggested I should
study medicine, saying it would suit someone like me. Others advised me to
attend the school I had passed the entrance exam for, so I wouldn't have to
worry anymore. Some even suggested going to vocational school, where I could
be free and happy. It was such a dilemma. With my mind in disarray, and
fearing I would miss the registration deadline, I simply thought, "Stop
worrying and just pick one." So, I chose to study medicine. It seemed like a
carefree option, avoiding the hardships of university and daily exams.
But after graduating, I regretted my choice. I felt like I had made the
wrong decision. But what could I do? I couldn't have another chance to
choose like a pencil. I couldn't regret it. I had chosen my path, and I
couldn't blame anyone else. So, only I knew my own struggles, only I knew
that because of my wrong choice, I had to work even harder, study even
harder than others. Now, I understand, truly understand. From now on, I can
only rely on myself. The pocket money won't be given by my parents anymore;
I have to earn it myself. I have to work hard on my own, without relying on
others. I have to manage my own life, so my parents don't have to worry
anymore. If I want to study, I have to spend my own money on education.
Basically, I have to shoulder everything by myself. It's my life, and I'm
the one in charge! But above all, I must never make a lifelong regrettable
mistake.
Life is a long journey, and it can be considered long or short. Everyone
wants to live a good life, everyone wants to live a fulfilling life, but not
everyone can achieve their dreams. When making decisions, you must carefully
consider the path you want your life to take, so you won't have lifelong
regrets. Choosing the right path makes life beautiful, so let's take
responsibility for our own lives together! |
