|
Reaching the top of the tree in one's chosen occupation or profession is the usual
standard by which success in life is measured, at least in the Western world. However many Asians would reject this criterion. The
contemplative religions assert that success is only
measurable in terms of religious advancement and of the acquisition of the virtues. Thus, success would be in inverse ratio to material advancement.
Most of the world accepts the definition of material advancement, its objectives being
affluence and perhaps power over others, both being the most important means of self-expression.
Some are born into positions which already confer affluence and power, so success
to them might lie merely in the preservation of the family business or estate and perhaps
its enhancement for the benefit of the next generation. Most people have to work hard to
to achieve success.
The western concept of success is not always satisfying and some people, at the height
of their affluence and power, reject it in favor of the simple life. This happens for a
variety of reasons.
Beyond a certain point the acquisition of money proves unsatisfactory. The difference
between the lifestyle available to a millionaire and that available to a billionaire is marginal.
Unhappily money making can become an obsession, and some very wealthy people become
very mean. Money also creates anxiety since it usually has to be put at risk if more is to be
made. Other anxieties may be created when a large number of people become dependent
on a financial empire. Money confers power which may corrupt. It is often made
at the disadvantage of others, and it may damage a business man's relationships
both with his peers and with his subordinates. These pressures and anxieties
often have a detrimental effect on health and on family life. One's wife and
children are inevitably neglected and unhappy. The children of successful
capitalists or career workaholics sometimes reject everything
the father or parents stand for. Success thus means failure.
It is of course possible, though unlikely, that worldly success can be combined with a
sensitive and therefore successful approach to the problems outlined above. If a man or
woman can achieve this then he or she truly has the right to be called successful.
However success is not strictly related to the externals of power, prominence and
affluence, though these are often its attributes. It is more to do with happiness and fulfillment. What then are its features?
First, mental and spiritual peace. A satisfying yet balanced way of life makes for the
former and a religion or at least a philosophy for the latter. The body should not be neglected;
physical well-being is usually the result of good food and exercise; absence of strain is
at least as important. A successful life depends crucially on good personal relationships
both within and outside the family. To ensure the well-being and happiness of others forms
a large part of success. Perhaps the fundamental way to achieve success is first to be sure of
what you want to do with life and then to be sure that you are capable of doing it. Some
people are strongly motivated to a profession or to politics or to social campaigning from
early days; others have to find their own role in life by trial and error. Many of these careers
will not confer much success in the worldly sense but they will lead to the success of
happiness and fulfillment. |
